so here goes-
Love is such a fickle concept.. I have fallen in love like a dozen times and I'm only 20! I know people say that's crush, not love.. and maybe it is.. But after I failed to "woo"? the first couple, I learned to accept the fact.
Like every other person's life, I saw mine having these 'bad days' as they say, and learned to move on..
THese hindi films, shows and all have made love to be of too much value.. so much that stupid people have started to believe its The one true thing in life..
What they don't understand is that love is like a shiny new toy.. sometimes you get it, sometimes all you can do is stare and wish you had it… also it can get broken too like any other toy.. some big bully can take it from you if you are not careful.. crying and all in that scenario is alright in that case.. but suicide.. that's pretty stupid as there's lots of other shiny toys out there.. Maybe you won't like new one as much as you liked the last one.. but that's just your psych telling you that nothing can top the last one.. but like kids, you gotta learn and grow from it.. not die crying like some little b***h!
Love is an adult's plaything.. for teens its crush and for kids.. idk what it is.. they are the ducklings(following ducks everywhere) so it doesn't matter much!
But the point is.. it isn't that much significant in the grand scheme of things.. its just a part of your life.. filling up your social bar like the sims.. not an integral part to waste your life away. There's a lot to look forward to in life.. Every turn brings something new in it. Love is just one turn like that!
Getting depressed over something like that is just a waste of time and effort.. and dying..
When someone said life is a game.. they weren't wrong..
Friends, families, places, things, Events.. all of them are hurdles.. the more you pass through, the more experience you gain, but the chances of failure is increases too!
There are a thousand different way to die in a game.. and just a few to get through the levels.. you can always let those ducks eat you.. but jumping over them is the real challenge(yep! A mario fan).. Now you may think of love as the boss monster- difficult to get through.. But it isn't! There's always the cheat of changing your mentality or 'Perception' and just getting over it..
yep.. its really that simple!.. though you don't get checkpoints or extra lives.. so that's a bummer!.. but you can always use cheats!
Now those Hardcore-love fans might think I'm objectifying love too much.. but that's how it is.. and the sooner you accept the fact, the sooner you can become more awesome than your past-self!
I respect your views about love and also agree with some of them. Being depressed just because someone broke your heart or you didn't get your love, is seriously not wise. One should be mature enough to handle these feelings.
ReplyDeleteikr.. still what don't you agree with?
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